Sunday, January 11, 2009

Going out of town.

I just wanted to let you know I am taking a break for a while. I learned yesterday that my sister Bev passed away. I can't really believe it but she has been sick for a very long time. She has been so brave throughout and I have always called her my hero. Bev went into hospital to receive more treatment the day before I went away, and a few days before we returned home I knew something was very wrong.

I guess I put everything in the back of my mind and refused to believe this day would ever come, always planning for the next time we would get together, the next road trip.

This photo was a very happy time for us on her last visit here. Her daughter, my niece whom I always call my little sister, took the photo. It was a very special visit to Niagara Falls for the three of us, a girls only trip, and I shall always remember it with a smile. We were on the little boat that goes up to the Falls and we jokingly called ourselves The Maids of the Mist for the rest of the holiday. In our last conversation together I reminded her of it and I heard her laugh, so I am sharing this picture with you and ask if you could please say a prayer for my sister Bev and her family.

Photos of our early years. Bev is on the left and I am on the right in both.

Gregg, Brad and I hope to go to Germany as soon as we can get our passports taken care of. I'll be in touch when I get back.

39 comments:

papercages said...

Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. This is such a beautiful tribute to your sister. It seems you have a lifetime of good memories to help ease the pain of this awful time. My best to you. ~ tricia

Christy said...

Loosing a loved one is so very hard. And it is at times like this that you truly feel the distance of miles. Old photos bring back happy memories of times shared. I have found comfort in this scripture at Revelation 21:3&4 and you may too.

Jan said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Nothing really prepares you, even when you think you're prepared. Bless you.

Louise said...

Heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. I cannot comprehend the loss of a sibling. Many prayers your way.

magiceye said...

heartfelt condolences to you and all bereaved. may god give you strength to cope with this unfortunate happening.

Strawberry Jam Anne said...

Denise - I am so sorry to hear that your dear sister has passed away. You have said on many occasions that you were close and it is a terrible loss for you. I had wondered why your more recent posts have been different, now I know. Good to know that you were able to speak with her and share a smile recently. Your photos and memories will help you through this I'm sure. My thoughts are with you and all your family. I'm weeping for you but sending love and hugs.

Anne xxx

Lilly said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

What a wonderful tribute to your sister and thank you for sharing your memories.

antigoni said...

I'm so sorry Denise. I can't find words enough to comfort you. It's a great loss for you and your family. I'll pray for her soul and i'll pray for you for strenght.

Roy said...

Denise, my sincere condolences

Titania said...

Denise, I am sorry to hear that your sister has passed away.
The photos of you and your sister are a lovely memory which will never leave you. I hope to "see" you again when you are back.
Take care and hugs. Titania

The Good Life in Virginia said...

denise

heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
i am so sorry to hear of your loss.
the photos are priceless.
hugs
erin

Cezar and Léia said...

Dear Denise
I`m so sorry about this difficult moment for you and your family.

No word can really comfort you... But please now my deepest prayers and wish are always with you.

Cezar and I are still in Brazil.We spent December Holliday in Joinville ( South of Brazil ) with family but in reality we had some plans to return before this time. However we are still stuck here waiting for some documentation (Visa) to come back to Luxembourg.

I`m thinking of you!
God bless you.

Léia

Leedra said...

Sorry for your loss. Glad you do have such good memories.

Just got a passport, didn't put a rush on it and got in 6 days. A rush must be one day turn around now. Hope it is fast for you.

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Old Lady Lincoln said...

Denise, you have our deepest sympathy. Hope the three of you have a safe trip over and back. Hang in there. It does get easier with time. I know, I lost my sister 26 years ago from cancer.

Photo Cache said...

Very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and all she left behind.

Mary said...

Oh, Denise, I am so sorry! I know how special sisters are and you obviously were very close. May God be with you and her family and may you have a safe trip. Will be praying for you and sending love and hugs in my mind.

Tabib said...

My sincere condolences, Denise.

Eve said...

I'm so sorry Denise. My thoughts are with you.

mommanator said...

Prayers for you and your family! these are hard times indeed. May our Lord sustain you!

Kathy said...

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your sister. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Kathleen said...

God Bless you Denise.I am so sorry for your loss

Rocky Mtn. Girl said...

Oh, I'm sorry about your loss, Denise.
Know that I'm with you in spirit!
Hugs to you, my friend!
~Michele~

Gill - That British Woman said...

Oh Denise, I am so very, very sorry about the loss of your sister. Take care of yourself and my prayers are with you and your family.

Gill in Canada

Janet said...

Denise, it's a while since I stopped by and I was shocked to read your news. I know how close you were to your sister, and know you must be devastated. I'm sending you a great big hug.

Guy D said...

Sorry for you loss Denise, great tribute to your sister.

Take Care!
Regina In Pictures

The Birdlady said...

Godspeed - I hope you will find peace from your wonderful happy memories.

2sweetnsaxy said...

Oh, Denise. I am so sorry about your loss. My heart goes out to you and you and your family will ben my thoughts and prayers. Sending a big cyber hug your way.

Steve B said...

Denise, I am sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family. I look forward to your return.
Much Love,
Steve

Maria said...

Dear Denise, I am also very sorry for your loss! I'm thinking of you and sending you all my love!

Lucy Corrander said...

So so read this post, Denise.

Wishing you and your family and your sister's family all the best.

Grieving is hard - but it is wonderful to know of sisters who are this close and that you will have many happy memories when you think of her.

Lucy

Tina said...

sorry to hear about your sister.

hope the break does you good, and takes your mind off it little for you :)

Kay said...

Oh Denise, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing those beautiful photos of the two of you. I can see from the photos how very special you were to each other.

marina said...

I'm really sorry about your loss! I hate death and the feeling that I won't see again a beloved person! Be strong and remember her as in your photo: happy and beautiful!

Mare said...

God bless you and your family at this difficult time. I have no sisters, but seeing that you coined 'my little sister' for your niece, I guess I do have one! One day at a time.

Ilene said...

I'm soory. My prayers are with your family.

Denise said...

Just wanted to say how wonderful you've all been. Your comments have given me great comfort and I thank each and every one of you.

Kathiesbirds said...

So sorry about the loss of your sister. Though I know she will always live in your heart, it will be hard not to have her here in her own skin. I hope you had a safe trip and were able to gather some strength and comfort from being with your family. My prayers are with you all! Hugs!

The Tile Lady said...

Denise, I am SO SO SORRY to hear that you lost your sister. I know this must be an extremely difficult time for you right now, and you, your family and Bev's family will all be in my prayers. Thank you SO MUCH for your sweet comments on my blog. I appreciated the encouragement so much! It is so wonderful to have such great blogger friends, and to know that we can all share in our happiness AND sorrows, our fun AND difficulties in our lives in blogdom. Thank you for being there for me...I'll keep you posted on things in our world. Will be praying for God's comfort and strength for you all in yours....

Marie

ramblingwoods.com said...

I was scrolling down and am so sorry to read about your sister.